Lessons of Relationships.

The more I think about it, people and relationships are fascinating. The way we meet, the way we fall in love for a friendship and for romance, but also how we fall apart and start new chapters in our lives. Maybe there is a reason why the people we love hurt us sometimes and how we hurt the people that we love. I don't believe it is ever intentional. I do believe that there is a reason that we are being put through the struggle. It's all a learning lesson. We are hurt so we can gain strength, and we hurt others unintentionally because there is a need for us to realize that we are wrong. We have to learn to admit that we are wrong and that 99% of the time, we really mess things up and are too proud to think for a second that we are wrong. I dont know a single person that enjoys admitting that they made a mistake. That's why it's called life. We are constantly reminded of how we can be a better person, and a lot of the time, it causes us to lose something to gain a lesson learned. In the process of these lessons, you can always rekindle lost relationships, but this time around you'll have a better knowledge of how to compose yourself because you are stronger than you have ever been. You will be smarter in your actions and wiser in your words. You'll know how to treat people the right way. You'll know how to love without any excuses. You'll be able to breathe and laugh and learn and live. But guess what? Once you think you have it all figured out again, another block in the road will come up and you'll have to start the process all over again. Yeah, it does suck and it will be stressful and you will get hurt. Life will always bring struggle, no one ever said it would be easy. We will hurt others and others will hurt us. We will judge, manipulate, hate, resent, and give up on any hope we ever had. Although we will be beaten by the bad, we will also learn to be happy in our own content way, laugh until we cry, love with no limits, appreciate what we do have, and gain strength every single day. So no, life is not easy, but it's a worth while fight to become an amazing person. Don't try to be perfect, don't beg for forgiveness, don't cry over people who forgot about you, and do not give up on yourself because one day we will be the best version of ourselves and the people who hurt us will look back and realize what a mistake they made. Stay strong everyone.