Letting Go.

Letting go from someone you love could possibly be the most hopeless feeling. It's that constant knot in your stomach that will not go away. It's that feeling of desperation and anxiety. And then the question pops into your head, "why wasn't I good enough? I love him/her more than anything". Well everyone, no matter how much you love someone, you can't force them to love you back. I know that all you want to do is pretend like nothing happened and that that the person will come around, but really? They just broke your heart and the feeling was NOT mutual. I honestly don't think you even start to know who you are until you lose who you are, who you've been, and who made you the person you wanted to be. Do not be disappointed in yourself as long as you did everything possible to make a relationship work. Remember that the memories will always be in the back of your mind and you will most likely always love that person that hurt you deeply, but you loved the person they were; when they loved you with their entire heart, when they treated you with respect, and when they would've NEVER given up. If someone gives up on you, they are obviously not willing to change anything in his/her life to make the relationship work, and right then and there, a red flag should go up. Everyone deserves someone who will make sacfrices for them, and who will make the relationship mutual instead of one-sided. I said it before and I'll say it again; love doesn't change, circumstances do. If the person you love leaves you and never comes back, it was never meant to be, but if the person you love leaves you and comes back, you'll have them forever. Those were some wise words that I was given and ill hold onto then forever. We will always have hope and faith that everything will go back to the way it was before. We just need to remember that God does have a plan for us, and we still need to remember how to forgive and love even when we're so deeply hurting. Like my resident told me last night out of the blue "you'll be alright in the end". Its funny how God speaks through others. Stay strong, hold on to the good, and never look back at the bad. People change and there is nothing we can do to control it because in the end, they will look back at when they hurt you and they will regret it, but then it will be too late.